The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

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When a Democrat runs the same ad as a Republican, what does trans Iowa have left?

9 November 2026
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Trans rights are in the balance in the 2026 midterm elections

14 September 2026
Real Life5 min read

An ordinary good day as a trans person

Koa had no crisis to report on a Saturday morning, just coffee, a friend who said their name right, and a body that finally felt like their own.

Insight7 min read

Puberty blockers: approved for some, banned for others

Insight8 min read

Detransition, regret, and how the stories get weaponised

Detransition means returning to living in the gender assigned at birth, but the reasons are varied and often misrepresented. Some people detransition because of social pressure,…

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Queer groups sound the alarm as BC Conservatives target trans youth

9 November 2026
Quiz

Am I trans?

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.

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Insight6 min read

Can children consent to gender-affirming care?

Yes. Young people can consent to gender-affirming care in the same way they consent to any other medical treatment, by showing they understand what it will do, what happens if…

Insight7 min read

Why should society change for a small number of people?

Society makes room for small groups all the time, through step-free access, braille and sign language, because everybody matters whatever the numbers. Including trans people is…

News

The political playbook that unraveled US transgender rights in the past decade

9 November 2026
News

New transgender Georgia lawmaker wants to push for LGBTQ+ policies

8 November 2026
Real Life8 min read

What trans women really worry about on a hospital ward

Noor spent three days dreading her hip operation, not the surgery but the name on her wristband, until a night nurse asked her one quiet question.

News

Australian Press Council rules 'Transgender Dropout' headline unfair

8 November 2026
Every single one of them a tomato. Not one of them the same. 🍅
Inspiration

Every single one of them a tomato. Not one of them the same. 🍅

Insight6 min read

Do we need to protect women from trans women?

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…

Real Life12 min read

When your autistic child comes out as trans: what helps

Her son came out as trans at thirteen, and everything the professionals said pointed in opposite directions. This is what actually helped.

News

LifeLabs ordered to pay $32K for misgendering trans and non-binary patients

8 November 2026
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Trans Texans breathe again, but they're watching closely

7 November 2026
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History made: Madison elects Wisconsin's first transgender lawmaker

7 November 2026
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Blue states ban trans athletes: what it tells us

6 November 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life5 min read

Why do some people transition later in life?

Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally pressed the checkout button on her…

News

Hampstead Heath ponds trans access challenge heard at High Court

4 November 2026
Built on the rockiest ground, just to help people find their way. 🗼
Inspiration

Built on the rockiest ground, just to help people find their way. 🗼

Real Life7 min read

Stepping outside as yourself for the first time

Dani stood at her front door for eleven minutes before she finally stepped outside as herself, and what she found on the other side was sunshine, a dog barking, and a world that…

News

Marine Corps ends extensions amid scrutiny of transgender separation cases

3 November 2026
News

HHS rule strips disability protection from gender dysphoria

3 November 2026
News

One loss, one trans athlete, one ballot initiative: let's be honest

2 November 2026
Insight7 min read

Biological children and fertility for trans people

Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…

News

US ballot measures that will reshape trans lives in real time

31 October 2026
News

YouGov poll: voters trust Democrats on trans rights by 29 points

31 October 2026
Real Life7 min read

Coming out to elderly religious parents as a trans woman

Salma came out to her devout elderly parents in her forties, and discovered that love and faith can travel slowly and still arrive.

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