by Helen and Sammy
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One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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Previous weeks and their results →
The For Women Scotland Supreme Court ruling said that for the purposes of the Equality Act 2010, 'sex' refers to biological sex. It did not remove trans people's legal…
The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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She was two years into a waiting list when she realised she had already been waiting long enough.

Camila swallowed her first HRT tablet expecting transformation and felt nothing, then weeks later cried at a television advert and understood that the real milestone had already…

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →A young person goes to their paediatrician hoping finally to be understood, and leaves with their identity questioned and their care delayed.

Farah, recently separated, sat her two young children down to say she was their mum now, and discovered that her six-year-old cared most about the bedtime voices.
Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally pressed the checkout button on her…
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