by Helen and Sammy
Nothing is off the cards.
One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…
Patha v the Crown is a New Zealand High Court legal challenge to the government's ban on puberty blockers for transgender youth. Brought by trans young people and their families,…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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There is no test or label that tells you that you are trans. Many people recognise it because the gender recorded on their birth certificate does not fit who they are, and that…
Camila swallowed her first HRT tablet expecting transformation and felt nothing, then weeks later cried at a television advert and understood that the real milestone had already…

He grew up in 1970s Britain reading C.S. Lewis by torchlight and longing to be one of the brothers, not the girl they all thought he was, and it would take four decades, two…

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Helen sat down to debate a woman who wanted her in prison, and found herself explaining, calmly, why trans people are allowed to exist.

Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.
A trans woman notices her skin is different, her scent has shifted, and the mirror is finally, tentatively, starting to show her the person she has always been.
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