by Helen and Sammy
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One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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Previous weeks and their results →
NHS gender clinics are legally required to see patients within 18 weeks of referral under the NHS Constitution. In practice, waiting times across UK gender services now run to…
Trans joy is real, ordinary, and worth celebrating. World Laughter Day is a chance to share the funny, tender, human stories from trans lives and trans healthcare that remind us…
Trans women do not cause HRT shortages. Estradiol supply problems stem from manufacturing disruptions, demand forecasting failures, and regulatory pressures across the…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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She was two years into a waiting list when she realised she had already been waiting long enough.

Salma came out to her devout elderly parents in her forties, and discovered that love and faith can travel slowly and still arrive.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.

Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn out to be.
Camila swallowed her first HRT tablet expecting transformation and felt nothing, then weeks later cried at a television advert and understood that the real milestone had already…
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