The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

15 people have answered so far

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Rowling calls trans activism 'elitist'. Let's look at who holds the power

22 October 2026
Insight7 min read

Patha v the Crown: NZ challenge to the puberty blocker ban

Patha v the Crown is a New Zealand High Court legal challenge to the government's ban on puberty blockers for transgender youth. Brought by trans young people and their families,…

Insight8 min read

HRT shortages: do trans women really cause the supply gap?

Trans women do not cause HRT shortages. Estradiol supply problems stem from manufacturing disruptions, demand forecasting failures, and regulatory pressures across the…

Insight7 min read

Puberty blockers: approved for some, banned for others

News

Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
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Am I trans?

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Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
News

The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
Real Life7 min read

Finding chosen family when your parents reject you

Yara was seventeen when her home went cold, and what followed was not a loss but a discovery: that family can be chosen, and sometimes the people who choose you love you better…

News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
If only acceptance came as easily as a bag of yellow plums 🏳️‍⚧️
Inspiration

If only acceptance came as easily as a bag of yellow plums 🏳️‍⚧️

Insight7 min read

What happens next once you have decided to transition

There is no prescribed path once you decide to transition. Some people go in tiny steps and others change everything at once, depending on family, money and access to care. Social…

Real Life6 min read

When a marriage survives one partner transitioning

A couple faced the unravelling of everything they thought their marriage was and chose, slowly and honestly, to rebuild it around who they actually were.

News

Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
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The Voice singer Ciiara Nyx says music helped her navigate her trans identity

18 October 2026
Insight7 min read

Are trans people just autistic? Why the claim is wrong

No, trans people are not just autistic. The two can overlap, because both can involve difficulty fitting in, and some autistic people find it harder to hide who they are. But they…

News

Beyond depathologisation: Securing the right to health for trans communities

18 October 2026
News

I'm trans – why don't I belong on a women's ward?

17 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life7 min read

What gender dysphoria feels like at 15, and what helps

Inés was fifteen, hiding in hoodies in July and typing her feelings into a search box at 2am, until a friend asked what name she wanted to be called.

News

Trans protesters rush Harry Potter premiere red carpet

16 October 2026
Different boats, same sea. 🏳️‍⚧️
Inspiration

Different boats, same sea. 🏳️‍⚧️

Insight7 min read

What happens when trans people don't fit the system

When trans people don't fit the system, they carry the cost: mismatched documents, forms with no right box, care pathways built for one kind of story, and waits that run for…

Real Life10 min read

What trans people taught me about transition

Helen has spent years listening to people who have transitioned. What they told her, in kitchens and waiting rooms and long emails sent late at night, changed how she understood…

News

Texas GOP leader says anti-trans ads are not working

16 October 2026
News

A girl just wanted to run. Then came the protest.

15 October 2026
News

Trump asks Supreme Court to back transgender military ban

15 October 2026
News

'Cyclone': the Hong Kong indie that kept Tony Leung awake

14 October 2026
News

Sam Forstag refuses to throw trans people under the bus

14 October 2026
Real Life7 min read

Telling my children I am their mum now

Farah, recently separated, sat her two young children down to say she was their mum now, and discovered that her six-year-old cared most about the bedtime voices.

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