Eli's mother started taking photographs differently the day she realised the clock was running, and what changed everything was a Tuesday, some toast, and a medication that finally…
The "social contagion" and "sterilising children" framing is coordinated anti-trans rhetoric, not peer-reviewed science. The concept of rapid-onset gender dysphoria was derived fro…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
Try the quiz →Paul Mescal publicly declared his support for the trans community ahead of London Trans+ Pride this July, stating: "I'm incredibly proud to stand in support of my trans friends and…
The EHRC Code of Practice is guidance that tells employers and service providers how to interpret the Equality Act 2010. Updated after the 2025 Supreme Court ruling in For Women Sc…

If you are looking for a neat biological checkbox, you have missed the point, and the century. The truth is simple: trans women are women, trans men are men, and non-binary identit…
Transitioning at 62 is absolutely possible, and people do it successfully all the time. I've been told about someone transitioning in Australia in under four months at 62, and that…


Misgendering means using the wrong pronouns or gender for someone, and deadnaming means using the name they were given at birth after they have asked you to use a different one. Bo…
Mateo left a note on the kitchen table and went to bed not knowing what he would find in the morning; his father found the only answer that mattered.

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Try the quiz →World Laughter Day. Share with me your stories about trans people, about trans healthcare, about trans beautiful lives, and how they made you laugh with joy. The in-jokes, the tend…
The EHRC's draft code of practice does not deliver workable guidance. It is built on excluding trans women from being seen as women, it subjects all women to stereotype-based gende…


The government's draft guidance on single-sex spaces contains a direct contradiction: it states that members of the public do not have the right to challenge one another on sex, th…
Darya's father said the wrong thing first, but chose his daughter over his certainty and became the man she needed him to be.

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