The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

12 people have answered so far

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Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
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Puberty blockers: approved for some, banned for others

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Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
Quiz

Am I trans?

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.

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Insight8 min read

How do you know if you are trans?

There is no test or label that tells you that you are trans. Many people recognise it because the gender recorded on their birth certificate does not fit who they are, and that…

News

The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
Real Life7 min read

Being trans and a person of colour

Chidi moved between two communities that did not quite hold him, until he stopped looking for a place to belong and started building one.

News

Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
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Inspiration

If only rights were as easy to get as a bowl of tomato soup with a swirl of cream 🏳️‍⚧️

Real Life10 min read

What trans people taught me about transition

Helen has spent years listening to people who have transitioned. What they told her, in kitchens and waiting rooms and long emails sent late at night, changed how she understood…

News

The Voice singer Ciiara Nyx says music helped her navigate her trans identity

18 October 2026
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Beyond depathologisation: Securing the right to health for trans communities

18 October 2026
Insight7 min read

Online hate against trans people is not acceptable

Online hate targeting trans people is not acceptable, full stop. The same standards we apply to racist or homophobic abuse must apply to transphobic comments, whether they appear…

News

I'm trans – why don't I belong on a women's ward?

17 October 2026
News

Trans protesters rush Harry Potter premiere red carpet

16 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life7 min read

When love outruns the words: a grandmother and Sora

Sora's grandmother never learned the vocabulary, but she knew her grandchild completely, and on a quiet December morning she relabelled the Christmas stocking without anyone…

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Texas GOP leader says anti-trans ads are not working

16 October 2026
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Inspiration

Every single one of them a tomato. Not one of them the same. 🍅

Insight7 min read
Real Life7 min read

Learning to love your voice in transition

Mei spent months relearning her voice in secret, until one Tuesday phone call made her realise the smallest reclamations land the hardest.

News

A girl just wanted to run. Then came the protest.

15 October 2026
News

'Cyclone': the Hong Kong indie that kept Tony Leung awake

14 October 2026
News

Sam Forstag refuses to throw trans people under the bus

14 October 2026
Insight7 min read

What happens when trans people don't fit the system

When trans people don't fit the system, they carry the cost: mismatched documents, forms with no right box, care pathways built for one kind of story, and waits that run for…

News

He murdered a woman. A court overturned his conviction because the victim was trans.

14 October 2026
News

Daughters of the American Revolution axes chapter that challenged transgender membership

13 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

An autistic man's question about trans care and who it's for

An autistic man who spent decades quietly finding himself asked Sammy whether the same child, born into today's world, would have been guided somewhere he was never meant to go.

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